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Out of all the different human orifices, the anus is by far the most taboo. You can understand why, people get embarrassed about excreting from their bottom. But in truth, it is a shame that people feel so awkward about it, in the world of sexual gratification the anus can be the key ingredient.
The problem is twofold for males. Firstly there is the aforementioned stigma that comes from what you excrete from your anus. But second, there is the feeling that having anything stuck up there makes you gay.
People who think this way could not be more wrong. Plenty of males in healthy heterosexual sexual relationships use anal sex toys to increase the pleasure they are receiving. Toys like anal beads or butt plugs are often good introductions to anal pleasure. But once you really begin to experiment, vibrators and strap-ons are also viable options.
For the woman, the stigma is not as great. Many women at some point in their lives will experiment with anal sex and will often lead up to that by using anal sex toys. It is a good idea to build up slowly, the anus does not have natural lubrication like the vagina so using a finger and some KY jelly is a great way to get started.
Hygiene is a legitimate concern with anal sex. Using a condom is definitely recommended and washing your genitalia afterwards is very important. You should not feel awkward about asking your partner to wash thoroughly before you begin. It makes the experience more pleasurable and safe for both of you. Indeed anal sex within a shower or a bath cannot be over rated.
Once you are both comfortable with the basics and feel ready for bigger and better things, you can begin experimenting with prostate stimulation. Anal sex toys such as prostate massagers can give you pleasure that is comparable to that which women receive from pressure applied to their G spot.
A practice, known as ‘milking the prostate’ is now commonly known. It involved one party inserting their hand into the other’s anus and squeezing the prostate on and off, which can cause intense sexual pleasure. This technique has appeared in pop fiction and is thought to be derived from the prostate exam that males over fifty have to check for prostate cancer.
The stigma attached to anal sex or anal pleasure in general, is never likely to disappear. In fact with the increasing acceptance of gay males in society, anal pleasure for straight males is likely to become even more taboo. It is not the end of the world though, just because millions are missing out on having fun, does not mean you have to.
Keep enjoying anal stimulation and experimenting with it, there are plenty of people with an active interest who will happily join you. Those people who look down upon it and never try it do not know what they are missing out on.
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